I personally don’t think it’s technology. I’m surrounded by screens and my libido hasn’t suffered. At all. I would, so much. (Sorry.)
The problem as I see it is that I’m now in London whereas before I was out in Reading. I am much more into hanging out with ‘my people’, white intellectuals (yes I freely admit I have become much more selective since moving into town.) White intellectuals don’t ever form emotional bonds unless they’ve had a drink or ten. I don’t like drunk people.
So I don’t form relationships. I’d love to form relationships but it just doesn’t happen and I’m not the only person who’s considered nice and lovely to be with who it doesn’t happen for. It’s this town.
That’s my excuse, what’s yours?